I’m telling
you good news for presenting along with some cautions you've probably never
thought about.
“Ums” Won’t
Kill You
Don't worry so
much about using fillers like “um” and “uh.” These only become problematic when
other distracting factors are in play. Your audience will only notice your
“ums” if:
·
You
haven’t practiced, so you don't know where you're going next.
·
You
don’t enunciate clearly.
·
You
don’t exude enthusiasm about your subject.
To some
degree, a speaker’s occasional “um” gives the listeners’ brains an opportunity
to catch up—we can speak faster than we can listen.
Three Words
Weaken the Presentation
Some words we
use to strengthen our presentations paradoxically weaken them instead. Which
example below sounds more powerful?
I like you.
I actually
like you.
On another
competition, I recall watching a woman presenter, extremely confident in most
situations, speaking to a hostile and primarily male group.
To my
surprise, this usually dynamic speaker came off extremely unconfidently. Her
voice, dress, and manner were the same as usual, but I noticed that she used
the word “actually” in nearly every other sentence. Unconsciously, she was
attempting to ingratiate herself to this powerful audience.
Research by
Erickson, Eind, Johnson and O’Barrr discovered that a few specific words
deprive a speaker of power. Surprisingly, we often use these words to underline
or “pump up” the importance of our message. By over-reinforcing our message, we
seem to be “protesting too much.” Our credibility takes a hit.
These words
are:
1.
Really,
(really) as in
“It’s really,
really a good thing.”
2.
Truly,
as in
“It’s truly
the best software.”
And,
of course,
3.
Actually.
Watch your use
of these words, particularly when faced with an audience that challenges you.
Strip them out, and your speech will be more powerful, direct, and credible.
2 comments:
Unusual and interesting....2 qualities dat surely makes d author a star writer in the making...way to go
@Suryakumar
Thanks a lot for your nice comment.
I'll surely try to give the best of mine..
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